Why should you always Follow your Heart?
Have you ever had those feelings arising from your heart that you have ignored, only to realize the fact that you were wrong? Have you ever strongly felt this intuition within guiding you to do something that does not seem practical enough? Have you been afraid to listen to your heart? Do you sometimes feel like there are some things your heart is pointing at and your mind is saying something else? We all face some situations where we are confronted with this confusion regarding when we should listen to our heart and when we should not. Listening to your heart can be very crucial for you and at the same time can prove to be very difficult.
We are all conditioned by the society in such a way that we all find it difficult to take a lot of decisions from our heart. Following the heart is not what we are taught to do. We are often told to look at how logical a decision can prove to be, how profitable they will be financially, so on and so forth. For example: if we have to make a career decision we are told to look at the kind of money we will be able to make by choosing the career, we are also told to look at the kind of position it will provide us in the society. We are never told to take into consideration, how we will feel doing the job, in the career we choose to have. The way we feel does not have anything to do with thinking mechanically; it has everything to do with letting your heart lead. This is a concept that the society does not really tell us. But, this is the most important thing to keep in mind for all the decisions we choose to make in our lives.
Here are five reasons to follow your heart:
1. To connect
The ego often gets in the way of true connections with other people. It is our ego that gets in the way of our saying the important things, like, “I’m sorry,” “I miss you,” “I love you.” So when we let go of our ego, let people into our hearts, and begin to share our vulnerabilities, our fears, our authentic selves, we create space for others to do the same. When we embrace our flaws and imperfections, we realize that we aren’t alone, and we begin to connect on a level that is impossible to feel just with our eyes, or ears, or ego. We connect on a level that we must feel it with our hearts.
2. To find our true path
The heart has reasons that reason cannot understand. It has reasons that the mind cannot understand. And it has reasons that society, friends, and even ourselves cannot fully understand. But if we don’t follow our hearts, we will often spend the rest of our lives wishing that we did. Our passions — those moments, experiences, and people that feed our soul and make our hearts beat, don’t just go away if we don’t follow them. They fester and eat away at our worthiness. Follow your passions, find your true path, then follow it with all your heart.
3. To allow yourself to heal
Hurt happens. But so does healing. You can’t always think your way out of pain and confusion. Sometimes, the best answers come to a relaxed mind and a heart that’s in tune with the universe. We often don’t tune in to our hearts because that’s where our pain is stored. But when we’re brave enough to live life from our heart, not only do we allow our own wounds to heal, but, by sharing our stories, we can touch and heal people’s souls.
4. To love oneself
To love ourselves totally different from massaging our own ego. Ego judges and punishes. Love forgives and heals. Your ego will tell you you’re not enough. Your heart will tell you you’re more than enough. By following our heart and loving ourselves through the ups and downs of life, we learn that we are worthy of love and deserve to feel loved. Without being able to love yourself, it is very difficult to share that love with anyone else. Self-love is not optional. It’s a necessity.
5. To love others
My one rule when it comes to love is that you should never settle for less than a heart flutter. When your ego is in control and all you’re assessing in a partner is looks, financial security, and social status, you miss out on the energy that can only be felt between two souls at the level of the heart. If, in the past, we have been in a rough relationship or through a bad breakup, then we often close our hearts off for fear of being hurt. It takes courage to let your guard down and truly follow your heart. Live with an open heart because you never know who might fall in it.
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